Time To Make An Appointment?
Most people hesitate to seek marriage counseling because they feel like a failure In fact statistics show that couples wait five to seven years before making the appointment. Come, expecting to gain new tools and experience to experience positive patterns of relating Treat the experience like a coaching session about how to communicate better and […]
What Made Your Marriage Vulnerable to an Extramarital Affair
If you can, simply tell your partner that you want to understand what has led up to this and that you would like see if you can create a new relationship. Of course, your marriage will never be the same but many couples feel that they have found a new level of intimacy that they never had […]
Be Careful About Seeking Details
Resist the impulse to pump him or her for details. She will probably only give you w details after she has come to trust that you will not use the details against her. She may also hide so as not to hurt her. Be sure that you are ready for the details. There is danger […]
When To Tell You’ve Discovered the Cheating
Talk to your partner about what you know as soon as you can find a good way to do be open. Most partner who have been involved in an extramarital affair hope never to be discovered Seeking to catch your spouse in other lies which will only exacerbate your anger and increase resentment. You need to […]
Realizing You Still Love Your Partner
Many men like many women realize that as angry as they are, they do still love their partner. You feel deeply connected to her and want to rebuild if she is remorseful. Or you may want to save the marriage for the sake of the children. If so, allow yourself to cool off and to […]
Statistics About Men And Women Having An Affair
Somehow we think of men being the extramarital affair seekers. But especially now that so many women are working in the business world, they are beginning to catch up with men. Peggy Vaughn, who specializes in issues around affairs, say a conservative estimate puts the figure at sixty per cent for men and forty per cent […]