Resist the impulse to pump him or her for details.
She will probably only give you w details after she has come to trust that you will not use the details against her. She may also hide so as not to hurt her.
Be sure that you are ready for the details. There is danger that you will be told images and pictures that you will never be able to get out of your mind.
Post by Jim Walkup

Jim Walkup
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Dr. Jim Walkup is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist based in Southern Westchester, New York, with over 40 years of experience helping couples restore and revitalize their relationships. Specializing in marriage counseling, premarital guidance, and infidelity recovery, Dr. Walkup offers compassionate, action-oriented therapy designed to defuse conflict, rebuild trust, and improve communication for couples in crisis.

