Do We Make Each Other Feel Special?
Making My Partner Feel Special–On a scale of one to 10 with 10 being really true about you or the two of you as a couple, rate yourself or the two of you in terms of making the other feel special.
————-My partner knows that I love him/her.
————-I often tell my partner I love him/her and show I want to be with her/him.
————-I know and often do some things that will make my partner feel special.
————-My partner can count on me during crises and stress times.
————-I listen carefully to my partner and let her/him know that I understand.
————-I am very likely to do something that my wife has asked me to do, especially when I have agreed to do it. I do this in a timely manner.
————-I do not do a fast start-up with my husband but I affirm our relationship before I share a concern.
————-I regularly express gratitude to my partner for small or big things.
————We regularly make time to cuddle and to enjoy sexual intimacy.
————We do find each other to give a hug and a kiss before we leave each other.
————We also greet each other similarly when we return.
————We often at least some of the time to go to bed together.
————We often eat together and talk as a couple or as a family (no tv).
————We always spend one night a week having fun going out with each other.
————When we leave, we know a little about what the other will be doing.
————We keep in touch with the challenges and joys of each others day.
————We make sure to celebrate our anniversary in a meaningful way.
————We make sure that several times a year, each of us shares our overall vision of what we hope to do and be as individuals and as a couple.
Place a star beside ones you would like to focus on more fully in the future. Circle anything that you would like to invite your partner to focus on more fully.
