The above quote stands out as a headline on the front cover of People Magazine. Miranda has been quoted in many places making this statement. People in her shoes often do not make such a bold declaration.
Being married to Blake Shelton from “The Voice “poses a real challenge since they both travel separately and extensively to pursue their singing careers. Yet few couples consciously make such a black and white statement with such certainty.
Her certainty could only come from a witting decision. Deciding not even to consider divorce adds a dimension of conscious intentionality. They have affirmed to the world that no matter what comes up, the option will not be entertained. The only caveat in other situations might exclude abuse or unwillingness to work on the relationship at all.
As a psychotherapist, I was heartened by her statement. It represents a clear commitment: “ I will not threaten to leave you. I will do what it takes to work it out.” I hope we have here a wonderful omen for the future of marriage and relationships in this country.
Post by Jim Walkup


