When you turn to your partner...


Perhaps, the two of you simply can not communicate or you have just had a useless fight. You may have even thought of divorce. Yet you know you don’t really want that. Maybe one of you has a job requiring travel or late hours. The time left, goes to your kids. In the middle of the night, you realize you are losing each other. At times of crisis, you wonder if he/she will be there. You know something has to change. I am so glad you have found this web site. Let this be your 911 resource for your crisis. Something has to change and I want to help you. I bring 40 years of experience in helping couples just like you. I can help you regain that “in love feeling” Consider setting up an appointment today before the pain gets worse at 914 548 8645.

Am I Crazy? A Story after the Discovery of Cheating




When Ginny called, the tremble in her voice touched me. Ken had left his phone on, so she did not need the password. She broke her rule of never intruding into his privacy.

She discovered a slew of text messages and cell phone calls that her husband had made to his attractive colleague at work. The number of messages staggered her, especially ones in the middle of the night. Some of the more intimate ones made her nauseous.

Making the Call

Becoming frantic she searched the internet for everything she could find about extramarital affairs. She realized her extreme reactions were normal and human.

She called saying, “I just need someone to walk through this with us.”

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How to Keep the Sizzle in Your Relationship


Ways to put sizzle into your Relaitonship


Have you lost some of the sensuous feelings you had when you first got married?  Do you sometimes forget that you are attracted to the one you love?

Over time the familiarity does not perpetuate intense erotic desire.  Having children often leads to less intimacy between couples.

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Parenting: Claiming Your Life Again


As a new parent or parent to young children, you may be experiencing a full range of emotions on any given day.While this is normal and expected, it seems universal and almost guaranteed that the negative emotions will be accompanied by guilt.

Perhaps some of that guilt is related to grieving the loss of your more autonomous self. And perhaps this could be a connecting point for you and your partner.

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How to Make Your Partner Feel Fabulous


Learn the ways that you interact you can make your relationship or marital partner feel great.


Think back over the past few weeks.  If you added up the sum of positive interactions with your beloved, how high would theybe compared to the negative ones?

Passing by you, did your partner hear an “I love you?” or was it a comment about something he had forgotten to do.  As you drifted off to sleep was there an affirming good night kiss, or a “don’t touch me, I need to go to sleep.”

John and Julie Gottman, the great marital researchers, have discovered… Click to continue

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