Think back over the past few weeks. If you added up the sum of positive interactions with your beloved, how high would they be compared to the negative ones?
Passing by you, did your partner hear an “I love you?” or was it a comment about something he had forgotten to do. As you drifted off to sleep was there an affirming good night kiss, or a “don’t touch me, I need to go to sleep.”
John and Julie Gottman, the great marital researchers, have discovered… Click to continue
