What Happens In The First Session

What Happens In The First Session

What Happens In The First Session

Some things you will explore in your first therapy session:
– To begin by sharing what brings you to therapy
– To describe how you want to change
– To name what you have tried in the past
– To evaluate what helped or did not
– To recount any recurring dreams or recent ones
– To name who you would want to be if you had to be someone other than yourself
– Describe your family history and the person you are most like
– Name from that history what events seem to impact you presently
After covering some of the above questions:
– You and your therapist will identify specific focal points for change.
– You and your therapist will plan how therapy might help your specific situation.
– You will decide on the structure of the therapy-usually one or two sessions per week.
– You will agree on the fee.
– You will set up the next appointment.
– Sessions may run from 45 minutes to 90 minutes depending on your schedule, resources and the intensity that works for you.

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Jim Walkup Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Dr. Jim Walkup is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist based in Southern Westchester, New York, with over 40 years of experience helping couples restore and revitalize their relationships. Specializing in marriage counseling, premarital guidance, and infidelity recovery, Dr. Walkup offers compassionate, action-oriented therapy designed to defuse conflict, rebuild trust, and improve communication for couples in crisis.