Flashbacks: What You Have To Know to Face Them
Suddenly You Are Reliving Your Worst Memory You’re watching a movie, and there’s mention of someone having an extramarital affair. Suddenly you find yourself replaying all of the fantasies and feelings that you had when you learned about the details of your partner’s cheating. All of the body sensations and anger and hurt that […]
How To Keep the Sizzle in Your Love Life
Have you lost some of the passionate feelings you had when you first got married? Do you sometimes forget that you are attracted to the one you love? Over time, the familiarity does not perpetuate intense erotic desire. Having children often leads to less intimacy between couples. As your wife goes off to teach, you […]
Dr. Jim Quoted in New York Times
Click to see Dr. Walkup’s quote in New York Times: In an article on finding the erotic in marriage, he comments on the writer, Esther Perel who wrote the book: MATING IN CAPTIVITY.
So Busy That We Don’t Talk Anymore
Do you feel like you never get time to catch up with each other? Do find yourselves getting lost on the computer, the iPhone, or just going to bed at different times? I probably don’t need to tell you, that you may be headed for disaster in your relationship. Couples who have disconnected begin to […]
The Challenge of Relationships
Meaningful Closeness
Tips for building those relationship of meaningful closeness to your marital closeness to the one you love. Your marriage can be enhance as you increase those moments of intimacy and love.