What to Expect After You Discover Your Partner’s Been Cheating
Yes you can recover from the betrayal of an affair. Here’s what to plan how to do it. The sense of hurt an betrayal may feel unbearable to you. The first stage of shock and awe will pass. You need to turn your attention to the healing process. Prepare as if for a […]
My Wife Is Cheating and Having and Extramarital Affair
Help, My Wife Is Having An Affair Perhaps you found a stash of letters, glanced at some old emails, looked at the cell phone calls or even tracked her down when she was on a so-called business trip. No matter how you found out, you like most men are feeling hurt and betrayed. To find […]
Starting To Trust Again
Will I Ever Be Able To Trust Again Once you have experienced your partner’s betrayal, you will find it hard to believe that you could ever trust again. Now that you know that your partner has lived a whole separate part of his or her life without your knowing anything about it, you may feel […]
Why Can’t We Move on?
Why Can’t We Just Forget about the Past and Move on? If you have confessed to what happened between you and your liaison, you may be feeling a sense of impatience that your partner seems to brood about the affair and constantly and go over the same questions. You may be wanting to say, “Enough […]
Is An Emotional Affair Less Dangerous Than A Sexual Affair?
In a word, the answer is “YES”. Yet, women and men often disagree about this. Let me say that from a marriage counseling perspective, emotional affairs have just as much power to break up a relationship as one that involves sex. Many men think that if they have not had sex, than they have honored […]
Now That Your Partner Knows (Part Two)
Now That Your Partner Knows (Part Two) You may desperately need someone to talk to, but you may fear that your spouse would experience that as a betrayal. Perhaps one of your concerns will focus on the issue of who among your friends, relatives, and even in-laws will have anything to do with you again. […]