8 Ways to Get The Most Out Of Your Marriage Counseling Sessions (From A Therapist With 40 Years Experience)

Whether you are just starting your marriage counseling or have been going for a while, you may still need clarification about how to make the most of it. Having certain things in mind can make all of the difference in whether you achieve maximum results. Here you will find some essential suggestions to gain success. […]
Dealing With Infidelity? Here Are 7 Therapeutic Steps To Recover

If you’re the victim of a partner cheating on you, you may feel baffled about the cause. Infidelity in all of its forms is baffling, heartbreaking and confusing. It’s not uncommon to blame the lack of a good sex life as the cause? Or perhaps, you were too involved with the kids. Or, your job […]
Spirituality In Counseling: How The Two Can Work Together

Working as a therapist with a ministerial background surprises many people. When I tell them, they have a “does not compute” look on their faces. Let me explore how I have come to see how the therapeutic and spiritual journeys mesh together. Very often clients do not understand how I can help someone integrate their […]
7 Feelings A Husband Wrestles With After He’s Had An Affair

After you have confronted him about the cheating, you may wonder what he is feeling. Since he has betrayed your trust in such a painful way, you may find it hard to believe anything he is saying. As someone who specializes in extramarital affair recovery, I want to tell you what I have heard many […]
How To Get Over My Anger About My Partner’s Infidelity

Why Can’t I Get Over My Anger? You may be surprised at the intensity of your anger at your partner who has had an affair. You may be even more confused at how long it takes to let go of that anger because you keep having flashbacks when you see a movie or a television […]
Is Your Midlife Crisis (Or Your Spouse’s) Harming Your Marriage? Here’s What To Do About It

If a midlife crisis is affecting your marriage, look for the signs. Are you withdrawing from your intimate other because things seem empty? Do you find yourself feeling that you have been there and done that, and you’re not just dying to get out of bed in the morning? When you get to work, do […]