Directions To Focus On
Constructive Ways to Focus Your Discussions So you have come to recognize some of the pattern tapes that are destructive to your rebuilding the bond between you? What can help you keep your from falling into the alley again. Couples who approach things with the following focuses, seem to regain positive momentum: What do you […]
Misplaced Key
Looking for the Key in All of the Wrong Places You may remember the following story. After dark, a very caring man is walking along a path in the park. He comes across a man on his hands and knees who’s frantically combing through the grass. “What’s wrong ?“ says the caring man. “I’ve lost […]
Replaying Old Dialogues
Replaying the Same Old Dialogue Hot Buttons and CD Players When you and your partner sit down to discuss things, what happens? If you are like many couples who have problems, one of you pushes the other’s hot button and you both are off and running with attacks and blame. Soon you are in a […]
Five Tips For Action
Five Steps When Serious Actions Need To Be Taken Maybe you are torn between selling a home that has been the family vacation spot for generations or selling your own home and moving to a new neighborhood. Perhaps you are struggling with an issue of taking a job that you don’t want and waiting for […]
What To Do If I’m Stuck
What To Do If You’re Stuck Usually a stalemate means you have bumped into an anticipated loss of a deeply held dream or expectation. As you demand that the two of you stick to a budget that eliminates any funds for play of any kind, your partner may consciously or unconsciously go into a funk. […]
The Brain & Being In-Love
I Love My Partner But I Am Not In Love With Her/Him