5 Things Your Man Doesn’t Understand But Could If You Do This

Woman looking off wondering what she can do to help her man understand her better.

Do you ever feel like your  man doesn’t understand you.  Maybe you feel frustrated because he just seems dense.  Things that seem obvious to you don’t seem to occur you to him.  As a premarital marriage counselor in New York City and in Westchester County, I have worked with couples for over forty years. I […]

6 Ways To Diffuse A Fight When Your Wife Gives You THAT Look!

Unhappy couple.

Women have, at times, a way of really getting under their guy’s skin. Maybe she gave you “that look” when you did something she disliked. Or, she took a breath, in that particularly annoyed way that makes your inner anger burn.  Or she rolled her eyes at you when you didn’t do what she “told” […]

10 Reasons You’re Crazy Not To Invest In Your Marriage

If this title caught your eye, then you have some question about where to go with your relationship.  Most couples experience ambivalence at various stages of their marital journey.  You will find yourself in good company if you read any of the journals about relationships. Let me give you this, at least you are seeking […]

2 Skills To Learn From Your Marriage Counselor

Have you ever thought, “I’d love to see a marriage counselor, but I have no idea what happens in a session?” I love this question because answering it gives me a chance to debunk any myths you might have in your mind about what marriage counseling is all about. So here is my sneak peek […]