Perhaps, the two of you simply can not communicate or you have just had a useless fight. You may have even thought of divorce. Yet you know you don’t really want that.
Maybe one of you has a job requiring travel or late hours. The time left, goes to your kids. In the middle of the night, you realize you are losing each other. At times of crisis, you wonder if he/she will be there. You know something has to change.
I am so glad you have found this web site. Let this be your 911 resource for your crisis. Something has to change and I want to help you. I bring 40 years of experience in helping couples just like you. I can help you regain that “in love feeling”
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Are you still sad about how Valentine’s day went? Many couples who have grown distant from each other do feel that way. They wish somehow that on this day of days, they could have buried the past and felt close again.
One or both of you may be because of a big or small disappointment or fight. You may have spent so little time with each other lately. Expect your relationship to go such have these ebbs and flows.
However, if your Valentine’s Day was due to the aftermath of an extramarital affair, you may feel like you should have gotten over this by now. A recent study of infidelity describes how many years have to go by before couples begin to feel relaxed in their relationship again.
Go to more about the study
To become close and familiar with your partner does not always lead to the intense erotic desire. Having children often leads to less intimacy between couples.
If you sense a growing distance between you , take heart. Ebbs and flows come with the territory. Intensify intimacy and sexual interest by making room for new adventures together. Exploring activities that lead to intense excitement on your own will give you much to share and make you a fascinating partner.
Watch a scintillating Ted Lecture on The Secret to Desire in a Long-term Relationship by Esther Perel, recognized as one of the world’s most original and insightful voices on couples and sexuality across cultures.
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You’ve worked hard. You’ve made Partner or Director. Unfortunately your spouse is not quite so impressed.
Long hours or travel have strained the bond with your beloved. Not looking up from your laptop (continue reading)
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Now that your partner has gotten your attention you’ll need to show good faith by taking action. Express remorse and listen without being defensive.
Odds are good that your spouse has been sending up smoke signals for awhile. You may have hoped that you could let things go along a little longer. Yet you now know the time has come for action.
So do the thing you would do at work that made you successful. You would probably bring in a coach. So why not consult with a professional marriage counselor or a relationship expert to help you make up for lost time?
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