If your are considering marriage counseling, you will learn how to communicate, how to deal with conflicts, and discover how to have fun together again. You will find the work to be intense but also filled with valuable self-discovery.
There are some cases when couples come for help to stay married because of their children, but it is possible for you to rediscover why you married in the first place. When working with you I will help you to build a model of who your partner is and how to work and play together while acknowledging your differences.
I find that couples seeking marriage counseling in New York and Westchester hardly take time to breathe and can learn techniques for making their few moments together count.
I will help you grow and I will take an active role in your therapy rather than simply sitting and listening. I see our work together as a mutual project of exploring what works for you. The goal of therapy is to achieve a change that you want to make in your life.
Do not hesitate to seek relationship counseling as soon as you know there is a problem. Premarital counseling is not too early to start for in fact it will get you started on the right foot. Research suggests that couples wait an average of seven years from when they develop communication problems or other issues before they seek marital counseling.
Not every couple finds a way to stay together. If either of you come to that conclusion I can promise you that by sticking with the relationship counseling you will develop your skills for relating to a new partner. As parents, even if you separate, you will increase your ability to communicate with each other in ways that will help your children immeasurably.
In my individual work with you I will guide you in develop a more positive self image. You will learn about some conscious and unconscious beliefs about what you fear about yourself and others in relationships. . We will look for those basic patterns that keep you stuck. We will celebrate your new steps, from small steps to fantastic ones.
Call him at 914 548 8645