If your partner has accused you of nagging, take him seriously.
A recent Wall Street Journal article makes the point that nagging unchecked can be destructive to your marriage.
Your partner’s constantly being onto you may come from a fear that you do not take her seriously, though of course men can be naggers too.
As a step toward marital bliss, let your partner tell you when he is tensing up at your comments
To build the trust that decreases nagging, follow up on your commitments in a timely manner, to leave her feeling that what she wants matters to you.